As we approach the conclusion of “When Life Gives You Tangerines” , only four episodes remain, and they promise to deliver a heart-wrenching finale. The series has navigated through deep sorrow, culminating in a final chapter titled “Winter, ” which encapsulates the frigid reality of Ae-soon’s (IU – Moon So Ri) life—a stark reminder of winter’s oppressive chill and its emotional weight.
The Seasons of Life: A Cycle of Loss
Netflix opted to break down “When Life Gives You Tangerines” into four distinct chapters, each mirroring the changing seasons and pivotal moments in Ae-soon’s journey. Each season embodies not just a transition in time but also a series of devastating losses—each representing a precious “tangerine”severed from her existence.
The “Spring” season brought fleeting warmth alongside immense tragedy. The sea took Ae-soon’s father, forcing her to seek refuge with her paternal relatives while yearning for her mother’s presence. Just when they were reunited, fate dealt another blow as she was taken from Ae-soon, who, at only ten years old, bore the immense responsibility of supporting her family. In the midst of her burdens, Gwan-sik emerged as a steadfast companion in her isolation.
Transitioning into “Summer, ” Ae-soon, now married to Gwan-sik, encountered relentless challenges from her mother-in-law and grandmother-in-law. Nevertheless, fortified by Gwan-sik’s unwavering support, she stood resilient. However, even the strongest foundations can crumble; their child was taken, marking a loss that profoundly changed Ae-soon. Her grandmother often said that while parents who pass on go to heaven, a child’s death lives forever in the hearts of their parents—a grief that never truly dissipates.
As “Autumn” descended, it did not bring solace, instead heralding yet another goodbye as Ae-soon lost her grandmother, the woman who had sacrificed everything for her happiness. Although her passing followed the natural cycle of life, grief always carries its own weight, irrespective of expectations.
Now, as “Winter” approaches, predictions hint at the imminent loss of Gwan-sik, Ae-soon’s most reliable support. Initial hints point towards a calamity, with scenes of Ae-soon rushing to the harbor and Geum-myeong’s frantic reactions to a stretcher indicating a tragedy that might eclipse all previous losses.
Once again, Ae-soon could be left grappling with the agony of losing her loved ones, as life’s seasons steadily shift.
A Heartfelt Desire Born from Suffering
As Ae-soon’s narrative reaches its tragic end, she has faced the unrelenting nature of reality, which has claimed every cherished person in her life, leaving behind only scars. Her heartfelt wish, articulated beside her grandmother’s grave, resonates deeply: “I wish you and I (Gwan-sik) would die together.”
Ae-soon’s experiences have drained her courage to confront a future without Gwan-sik. In her quiet, profound wish lies a lifetime of grief: “Every season, I’ve had to say goodbye.” The loss of each loved one—her parents, Gwan-sik’s grandparents, and their child—has left her feeling that no one will ever fill the emptiness left behind.
Gwan-sik has been Ae-soon’s anchor throughout her turbulent journey, acting as a brother, father figure, and devoted husband. Through all trials, he has steadfastly supported her, offering her the hope to rise above the harsh realities of life. Her fear of losing him before her is a deep-rooted sentiment, reflective of a lifetime spent in sorrow.
“Don’t worry. I’ll live longer than you. How could I leave you behind? I’d feel better if I gave you a good send-off first and followed afterwards.” Gwan-sik would rather suffer the loss of Ae-soon than die first and leave her all alone without him 🥲 but then what if he really dies… pic.twitter.com/PrywbvDazv
— daisy han (@kdramadaisy) March 11, 2025
I really know what Gwan-sik’s going to say after the first word cause he’s the opposite of me; I’d like to die first. I want to leave first, I can’t bear the pain if I lose my dearest;___;((yep, this also suicidal ideation influenced)) pic.twitter.com/KbLulFFpWo
— patar is sadㅇ/ (@yell_llow) March 18, 2025
Gwan-sik, only a year older than Ae-soon, has continuously shaped her journey—growing alongside her, embodying the roles of best friend and loving partner. Every pivotal event in her life has been marked by his unwavering support, making the storms of life a little more bearable. Ae-soon’s connection to Gwan-sik is profound, and with it comes the inevitable fear of one day facing a reality without him.
“I wish you and I would die together.” This poignant longing expresses the heavy burden those left behind carry, resonating with characters like Geum-myeong and her younger brother. Yet, as we see in the series, wishes may not alter one’s fate. The poignant opening scene of Ae-soon alone within a crowded nursing home represents the heartbreaking conclusion of her wintry tale—an epitome of a life richly marked by trials, yet devoid of a charming resolution.
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