A recent TikTok video featuring a marathon runner’s surprise proposal has ignited a lively discussion online, with some viewers expressing that the act was “selfish.”
In March 2025, Sarah John, a TikToker, shared a video capturing the poignant moment when her then-boyfriend got down on one knee to propose at the finish line of her grueling five-hour marathon.
Accompanied by the trending sound clip known as ‘Hozier’s yell, ’ Sarah remarked in her post caption, “No, I’m still not over this incredible moment.” However, the uplifting video soon attracted a wave of critiques from users suggesting that the proposal overshadowed her personal achievement.
Responses from the TikTok Community
As the video gained traction, an influx of comments surfaced, many questioning the appropriateness of the proposal’s timing. One viewer remarked, “Am I the only one who thought he stole her moment?”
Another comment echoed this sentiment, stating, “Hmmm…should’ve let her have her moment to reflect and celebrate HER achievement; that proposal could’ve waited another day!” A third user asserted, “Definitely should’ve saved this proposal for another day, totally stole her moment.”
@sarahjohn69 No I’m still not over this incredible moment💍🏃🏻♀️ #proposal #engagement #running #marathon #runtok #girlsthatrun #runner #marathonrunner #engaged #fyp
Responding to the backlash, Sarah defended her fiancé, emphasizing that the proposal aligned perfectly with her personality and desires.
“These comments are wild. If my partner did this I’d be over the moon; it wouldn’t even cross my mind that he’d ‘stolen my moment.’ People need to lighten up. She clearly loved it; look how happy she is, ” a supportive viewer commented, leading to Sarah’s affirmation.
“Exactly! These strangers seem to think they know me better than my partner, ” Sarah replied.“In fact, anyone who knows me would agree this was the perfect proposal for me.”
Echoing this sentiment, Sarah pointed out in a further comment, “I think he knows me better than these strangers on the internet, and I couldn’t imagine anything more perfect.”
This incident is not isolated; proposals going viral on TikTok have become a popular trend. In December of the previous year, Universal Studios made headlines after a man proposed in front of the Grinch, showcasing the often whimsical and creative nature of public proposals.
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